So, you’ve decided to take the plunge and share your precious work with others for feedback. Congratulations, you’re already ahead of the game! Now, you may be feeling a bit nervous, and that’s totally understandable. But fear not, my friends, for I am here to help you make the most out of your writing critique with these ten tips!
Keep an open mind
Yes, I know, you poured your heart and soul into your writing and you think it’s perfect. But trust me, no one’s perfect. Be open to feedback, even if it’s not what you want to hear. You never know, it might just make your writing even better.
Leave your ego at the door
Your writing is not a reflection of your worth as a person. So, when receiving feedback, don’t take it personally. It’s not an attack on you, it’s a critique of your work. So, let go of your ego and focus on improving your writing.
Don’t be defensive
When someone points out something that doesn’t work in your writing, it’s easy to get defensive. But, take a deep breath and try to see their point of view. Ask questions, and be willing to have a conversation about the feedback. You might just learn something new.
Be specific in what you’re looking for
When you’re submitting your work for feedback, be clear about what kind of feedback you’re looking for. Do you want overall impressions? Specific feedback on plot or character development? Grammar and syntax corrections? Let your reader know so they can focus their critique.
Choose your critics wisely
Not everyone is a good fit for giving feedback on your writing. Choose people who you trust and who you know will give you honest and constructive criticism. And, if possible, choose people who are familiar with the genre or style you’re writing in.
Take notes
When receiving feedback, it can be overwhelming to try and remember everything. So, take notes! Jot down comments, suggestions, and questions that come up. This will help you remember everything when it’s time to revise.
Don’t be afraid to ask for more feedback
If you’re unsure about something or if you’ve made changes and want a second opinion, don’t be afraid to ask for more feedback. Just make sure you’re not bombarding your critics with too many revisions.
Take a break
Sometimes, it’s good to step away from your writing for a bit before revising. Take a break and let the feedback sink in. Come back to it with fresh eyes and a new perspective.
Trust your instincts
While feedback can be incredibly helpful, don’t forget to trust your own instincts. You know your writing best, so don’t make changes just because someone else suggested them. Make sure any revisions feel true to your own voice and style.
Remember to have fun
Writing is supposed to be fun! Don’t forget to enjoy the process, even when receiving feedback. And remember, just because someone didn’t love your work doesn’t mean it’s not good. Keep writing, keep learning, and keep having fun!